No thank you, dear "friends." I don't want to go out and meet other boys. I don't want to flirt and consider anyone as a potential anything. If I am not spending time with him, then I need to spend time with myself. I need to figure things out with myself. Anything else right now would be so unhealthy, so ill-timed and so, so bad in the long run.
Why can't you see me clearly enough to know that?